You've probably heard the phrase before ... couples who pray together stay together. I (Kellie) am not sure of the hard empirical data, but based on twenty years of marriage and personal contact with hundreds of other married couples, I can say that it's definitely the way to go. Brett and I talk a great deal in our premarital classes about pursuing intimacy. Intimacy is absolutely the lifeline to a successful relationship. And there are many avenues a couple can take to grow closer together. Certainly, good and honest communication is key. A healthy sex life is also a favorite! But praying together might be the most surprising way to pursue intimacy. There's a supernatural covering that happens when couples are praying for each other and with each other. Here are some benefits of prayer that might motivate you to start:
- It honors God
- It builds a hedge of protection around your marriage
- It develops emotional intelligence in both partners
- It's therapeutic
- It takes your relationship to the next level
- It affects your future
Don't panic if this is something new for you. God doesn't expect you to pray lengthy, lofty prayers. He just wants to hear what's on your heart. Start small, and keep it simple. If you're uncomfortable praying together out loud, just spend a few minutes in silent prayer together. There are even books of printed prayers available at bookstores that can help you get started.
I'm still surprised at the way prayer can open us up to being more honest with each other. For example, sometimes Brett and I will pray together after we've had an argument ... believe me, it's really hard to stay mad at someone when you're praying together! Prayer has also been a secret weapon in our marriage. There are days when I can almost tangibly feel Brett's prayers for me. And I know he feels the same way ... even when we're on opposite ends of the city. Step out and try it. I predict it won't be long before prayer is a common language spoken between the two of you and the Lord.
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